[region-isolation] When inferring isolation for an argument, handle non-self isolated parameters as well as self parameters that are actor isolated.
As part of this I went through how we handled inference and rather than using a
grab-bag getActorIsolation that was confusing to use, I created split APIs for
specific use cases (actor instance, global actor, just an apply expr crossing)
that makes it clearer inside the SILIsolationInfo::get* APIs what we are
actually trying to model. I found a few issues as a result and fixed most of
them if they were small. I also fixed one bigger one around computed property
initializers in the next commit. There is a larger change I didn't fix around allowing function
ref/partial_apply with isolated self parameters have a delayed flow sensitive
actor isolation... this will be fixed in a subsequent commit.
This also fixes a bunch of cases where we were printing actor-isolated instead
of 'self' isolated.
rdar://127295657
(cherry picked from commit 50c2d678f219980f2d6c005cf866b6bd20334b0b)