Add concept of 'sentinel' RoomMembers which watch state at a particular point in time.
New sentinels are only created when the RoomMember state changes, so we don't
needlessly deep copy RoomMembers f.e. MatrixEvent. Sentinels co-exist with
RoomState.members which are single instances to which listeners can be attached.
This gets the best of both worlds (don't have to keep re-attaching listeners on
member changes, don't have needless memory consumption).