[Breaking] Enable `experimental.isolatedDevBuild` by default (#84561)
### Why?
This PR cleans up the incremental rollout of enabling `isolatedDevBuild`
throughout the CI, as it required many test changes (x-ref:
https://github.com/vercel/next.js/pull/84043).
- https://github.com/vercel/next.js/pull/84556
- https://github.com/vercel/next.js/pull/84558
- https://github.com/vercel/next.js/pull/84559
- https://github.com/vercel/next.js/pull/84562
This PR enables `experimental.isolatedDevBuild` by default so that users
can run `next dev` and `next build` in the same directory, and they
would not conflict. This occasionally happens when developing with AI
tools, where you have a running dev server, but the Agent runs `next
build`.
### How?
- Removed `__NEXT_EXPERIMENTAL_ISOLATED_DEV_BUILD` flag and its usage
from CI and tests
- Updated tests that were not caught via rollout (e.g., missed out on
test-*-windows)
- Moved `isolatedDevBuild` option out of experimental
- Added Telemetry
Will follow up with docs.