fix: wait for webpack HMR to complete before refreshing server components
During HMR, the dev server sends BUILT (triggering async module.hot.apply())
before SERVER_COMPONENT_CHANGES (triggering hmrRefresh()). Previously,
hmrRefresh() fired immediately without waiting for the webpack update to
finish, creating a race where __webpack_require__ could be called for modules
that were temporarily absent from __webpack_modules__ during the swap.
This was previously masked because the resulting TypeError was caught by
React's error boundary, but webpack 5.104+ added an explicit module existence
check that turns this into a hard "Cannot find module" error.
Fix by awaiting the pendingHotUpdateWebpack promise before calling
hmrRefresh(), ensuring all webpack modules are fully in place before the RSC
response tries to reference them.