example: restore .next handling for with-docker examples (#90651)
- Remove BuildKit cache mount on `.next/cache` that trapped fetch cache
in a volume unreachable by the runner stage
- Restore `mkdir .next && chown` in runner stage for writable prerender
cache
- Add commented-out `COPY .next/cache` line as opt-in for persisting
build-time fetch cache
- Apply same fixes to `Dockerfile.bun` (only needed the `mkdir`/`chown`,
it never had the BuildKit mount)
Closes #90648