Add perf marks, benchmark runner, and restore OTel startResponse span
- Add opt-in perf marks module (NEXT_PERF_MARKS=1) for SSR phase timing
- Add benchmark runner (bench/basic-app/run-bench.js) with CPU profiling and auto-comparison
- Restore NextNodeServer.startResponse to NextVanillaSpanAllowlist (fixes OTel test)
- Update AGENTS.md with benchmarking docs and streaming pipeline notes
- Enhance minimal-server with perf marks collection and CPU profiling support