Revert "Revert "Add a --webpack flag and default --turbopack to true (#84216)"" (#84351)
Reverts vercel/next.js#84348 which itself reverted #84216.
In the 2nd attempt to make --turbopack a default behavior.
* adjust the Generate Pull Request States action to specify `--webpack`
* set the `IS_WEBPACK_TEST` flag in the deployment e2e tests (which are now [passing](https://github.com/vercel/next.js/actions/runs/18113062122))
* make the warning about having a webpack config without a turbopack config more verbose and consistently an error