[unstable_after] fix occasional dev-mode crash in edge runtime pages (#66099)
When hot-reloading an edge runtime page, sometimes we randomly get this:
```
[InvariantError: Invariant: Cannot call onClose on a response that is already sent. This is a bug in Next.js.] {
name: 'InvariantError'
}
```
and since `unstable_after` relies on `onClose`, no callbacks are called.
I believe this is because `web-server` [calls `res.send()` pretty early
for streaming
responses](https://github.com/vercel/next.js/blob/b9817f83519fdaa7a7fcd4711dfb80aa1e1a2434/packages/next/src/server/web-server.ts#L311),
so `res.sent` becomes `true` even though we're still streaming, and
prevents us from calling `onClose` in the streaming render. It makes
more sense to check the CloseController's `isClosed` instead -- when
that becomes `true`, we _really_ shouldn't call onClose anymore (points
to a bug), but before that it's fine.