chore: upgrade dependencies in Jest examples (#36858)
Ref: https://github.com/vercel/next.js/issues/36842, https://github.com/vercel/next.js/pull/36632, https://github.com/vercel/next.js/pull/36787
Upgrading to Jest 28, and aligning Babel example with `with-jest`
## Bug
- [ ] Related issues linked using `fixes #number`
- [ ] Integration tests added
- [ ] Errors have helpful link attached, see `contributing.md`
## Feature
- [ ] Implements an existing feature request or RFC. Make sure the feature request has been accepted for implementation before opening a PR.
- [ ] Related issues linked using `fixes #number`
- [ ] Integration tests added
- [ ] Documentation added
- [ ] Telemetry added. In case of a feature if it's used or not.
- [ ] Errors have helpful link attached, see `contributing.md`
## Documentation / Examples
- [ ] Make sure the linting passes by running `yarn lint`
