[ci] Download fnm directly from GitHub releases and validate checksum (#94579)
I determined that [`nvm` wasn't sufficient for our use-case since we
need to support
windows](https://github.com/vercel/next.js/pull/94175#issuecomment-4654622674),
so this doubles down on `fnm`.
This reduces risks of supply chain attacks with `fnm`.
This also cleans up some old stuff that was left over from self-hosted
runners and/or that was there for debugging, if it isn't useful anymore.