[Turbopack] add unstable prefix to persistent caching option and force to provide an expected level of stability (#71090)
### What?
Rename option to `unstablePersistentCaching` and require to pass a
persistent caching version (currently 1).
We increase the number when making improvements to persistent caching.
Smaller numbers are accepted too, but providing a larger number will
fail the build.
e. g. if we document `experimental.turbo.unstablePersistentCaching: 5`,
this will only work for next version that ship at least persistent
caching with version 5. Older version would be rejected.