fix(ci): improve Docker image cache streaming throughput and arch-awareness (#92617)
## What
- Increase `highWaterMark` from 16KB (Node.js default) to 16MB for
turbo-cache stream downloads and uploads.
- Include host architecture (`os.arch()`) in Docker image cache key.
## Why
The tiny default buffer in `Readable.fromWeb()` causes constant
backpressure stalls when piping large artifacts (~500MB Docker images)
through `zstd -d | docker load`.
The image contains native binaries (Rust toolchain, lld-link symlink)
that are arch-specific — without this, an image built on x86_64 could be
restored on aarch64 with broken binaries.