docs: Improve Oxc tooling guide for type-aware linting and fix race conditions (#12200)
## Summary
Closes #12190
- Add a callout warning that type-aware linting with oxlint requires
internal packages to be built first (same prerequisite as
type-checking), with workarounds for CI
- Fix race condition in the `quality:fix` example by making `format:fix`
depend on `lint:fix`, preventing parallel file writes from clobbering
each other