[KVConnector][NIXL] Organize NIXL connector into its own directory (#39354)
The number of features supported by the connector has grown substantially
and the `nixl_connector.py` file has accumulated a lot of code. Creates a separate
directory and isolates connector/scheduler code in the hope of improving clarity
and maintainability.
Further refactor of components aimed at improving clarity and simplifying code
will follow soon.
Signed-off-by: NickLucche <nlucches@redhat.com>