[VectorUtils][VPlan] Consolidate VPWidenIntrinsicRecipe::onlyFirstLaneUsed and isVectorIntrinsicWithScalarOpAtArg (#137497)
We can reuse isVectorIntrinsicWithScalarOpAtArg in VectorUtils to
determine if only the first lane will be used for a
VPWidenIntrinsicRecipe, provided that we also move the VP EVL operand
check into it.
This was needed by a local patch I was working on that created a
VPWidenIntrinsicRecipe with a VP intrinsic, and prevents the need to
update the scalar arguments in two places.