[mlir][MemRef] Use specialized index ops to fold expand/collapse_shape (#138930)
This PR updates the FoldMemRefAliasOps to use `affine.linearize_index`
and `affine.delinearize_index` to perform the index computations needed
to fold a `memref.expand_shape` or `memref.collapse_shape` into its
consumers, respectively.
This also loosens some limitations of the pass:
1. The existing `output_shape` argument to `memref.expand_shape` is now
used, eliminating the need to re-infer this shape or call `memref.dim`.
2. Because we're using `affine.delinearize_index`, the restriction that
each group in a `memref.collapse_shape` can only have one dynamic
dimension is removed.