[EP Perf] Update EP Perf dockerfiles with cuda12/cudnn9 (#19781)
### Description
* Update name of existing dockerfiles and add support to test latest
TensorRT EA binary located in the image
* Add cuda 12.3/cuDNN 9/TensorRT 8.6 dockerfile
* Add detail to CI prompts and configs
Instruction to test latest TRT via BIN:
1. Select `BIN` in TensorRT Version
2. In Variables, update related tarCudaVersion, **clear**
tarCudnnVersion (not required in latest TRT tar binary) , and path to
binary.