[build] fix the CI pipeline (#16962)
### Description
There are currently multiple failures that blocking the CI pipelines so
this PR has all of the fixes in order to make sure it passes the CI.
Otherwise a single fix will still fail the CI.
includes:
#16960
#16958
Please help to make sure this PR get merged once CI passed.
@snnn @carzh @guschmue
Fixed:
[AB#18118](https://aiinfra.visualstudio.com/6a833879-cd9b-44a4-a9de-adc2d818f13c/_workitems/edit/18118)
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Co-authored-by: Caroline Zhu <carolinezhu@microsoft.com@orttrainingdev7.d32nl1ml4oruzj4qz3bqlggovf.px.internal.cloudapp.net>
