Fix CUDA EP Abs and Sign bfloat16 support (#23914)
### Description
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Abs and Sign had bfloat16 kernels created but not registered with the
CUDA EP. Additionally Sign bfloat16 didn't work.
* register bfloat16 kernels with CUDA EP
* fix incorrectly named macro by adding 'X' as they add bfloat16
registration
* add specialization for bfloat16 to _Sign
* copied existing pattern. not sure if there's a better way
* update tests
### Motivation and Context
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#23875
