[EP Perf] MemTest: Add Valgrind and fix addressSanitizer (#16930)
### Description
1. Add valgrind to existing ep_perf CI MemTest and parse ORT-TRT memLeak
details
1. General Valgrind logs and logs related to ORT-TRT will be parsed in
[CI
artifacts](https://aiinfra.visualstudio.com/Lotus/_build/results?buildId=334122&view=artifacts&pathAsName=false&type=publishedArtifacts)
1. Logic:
1. Run valgrind with `onnxruntime-perf-test -e tensorrt` and export log
to `valgrind.log`
2. Identify if any `definitely lost` memleak happened
1. For log paragraphs which show `definitely lost`, parse if they have
keyword `TensorrtExecutionProvider`.
2. If so, extract these details to `ort_trt_memleak_detail.log`, and
return `build failure` to EP Perf CI
3. Fix existing addressSanitizer and sync the squeezenet testcase with
latest update from
[ort-inference-example](https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime-inference-examples/blob/main/c_cxx/squeezenet/main.cpp)
1. Updates in short: Upgrade main.cpp to be using
OrtTensorRTProviderOptionsV2
4. Reorder the 7-min-MemTest to be ahead of 9-hr-model-tests, and enable
MemTest by default