[ROCm] Remove usage of deprecated ROCm component header includes (#97620)
- clang parameter 'amdgpu-target' changed to 'offload-arch'
- HIP and MIOpen includes path updated for extensions
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/97620
Approved by: https://github.com/ezyang, https://github.com/jithunnair-amd
