[C10] PG observability hooks. (#108815)
Expose a set of observability hooks into C10D such that our users can
detect collectives failure both faster and more easily.
The design is similar to NCCL desync debug that it minimized the
overhead by doing most of the work out of the main thread.
This PR introduces a new module torch.distributed.hooks that exposes the following set of methods:
register_collective_start_hook
register_collective_end_hook
register_process_group_hook
The process group hook exposes PG creation on the member ranks and call them inline from the
the PG creation code. This is fine since this happens during initialization and a limited number of times.
The collective start/end hooks are fired from a single background thread. It reads
events from a C++ queue and dispatches over.
Queue notification is oddly done using a pipe, this is needed so python can abort the thread on shutdown
and have it as background thread. This is not possible with more reasonable choices like a condvar.
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/108815
Approved by: https://github.com/wconstab, https://github.com/fduwjj
