[quant][graphmode] Enable inplace option for top level API (#40414)
Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/40414
after `_reconstruct` is supported in RecursiveScriptModule: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/39979
we can support inplace option in quantization API
Test Plan: Imported from OSS
Differential Revision: D22178326
fbshipit-source-id: c78bc2bcf2c42b06280c12262bb31aebcadc6c32
