Use shareable calculate-docker-image GHA (#105372)
Switch from PyTorch `calculate-docker-image` GHA to its shareable version on test-infra https://github.com/pytorch/test-infra/pull/4397.
I will clean up PyTorch `calculate-docker-image` GHA in a separate PR after landing this one.
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/105372
Approved by: https://github.com/malfet
