[reland][DNNL]:enable batchnorm3d (#40995)
Summary: Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/40995
Test Plan: Imported from OSS
Differential Revision: D22440765
Pulled By: VitalyFedyunin
fbshipit-source-id: b4bf427bbb7010ee234a54e81ade371627f9e82c
