Align torch.library.impl with the new torch.library style (#111308)
We add a new overload to torch.library.impl that accepts an optional
Library arg. If provided, the lifetime of the registration will be
tied to the Library arg, otherwise, it will live forever.
Test Plan:
- existing and new tests
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/pytorch/pytorch/pull/111308
Approved by: https://github.com/soulitzer
ghstack dependencies: #111307
