[sil-llvm-gen] Allow for -Xllvm options to be passed to sil-llvm-gen.
Specifically, we ignore the -Xllvm bit and put the option into
FrontendOptions.LLVMArgs so that parts of CompilerInvocation that assumes that
-Xllvm flags will be placed there are actually there. We still pass through the
argument to llvm::cl so it gets set that way as well.
(cherry picked from commit d0d2163e0d0be0ceaf43a314b1e481b03d8e8f21)