Update tag handling for app cache (#53321)
Optimizes how we handle cache tags for soft tags (auto-added by Next.js)
and normal tags (added manually) and adds differentiating between
`revalidatePath('/blog/first')` and page/layout.
Soft tags are not stored across cache entry and instead auto sent along
when checking cache entries. This allows us to prevent storing
exponential amounts of tags across cache entries while still having the
relationship between them so that single path revalidation can work
properly.
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