Update dev IPC request (#47877)
This ensures we don't fail to send dev IPC requests when `localhost` resolves to an IPv6 address but the IPC server is listening on IPv4.
<details>
<summary>example error</summary>
```sh
TypeError: fetch failed
at Object.fetch (node:internal/deps/undici/undici:11118:11)
at process.processTicksAndRejections (node:internal/process/task_queues:95:5)
at async DevServer.invokeIpcMethod (/Users/test/projects/blog/node_modules/.pnpm/next@13.2.5-canary.28_react-dom@18.2.0_react@18.2.0/node_modules/next/dist/server/dev/next-dev-server.js:881:25)
at async DevServer.ensurePage (/Users/test/projects/blog/node_modules/.pnpm/next@13.2.5-canary.28_react-dom@18.2.0_react@18.2.0/node_modules/next/dist/server/dev/next-dev-server.js:1199:13)
at async Object.fn (/Users/test/projects/blog/node_modules/.pnpm/next@13.2.5-canary.28_react-dom@18.2.0_react@18.2.0/node_modules/next/dist/server/next-server.js:1496:29)
at async Router.execute (/Users/test/projects/blog/node_modules/.pnpm/next@13.2.5-canary.28_react-dom@18.2.0_react@18.2.0/node_modules/next/dist/server/router.js:293:32)
at async DevServer.runImpl (/Users/test/projects/blog/node_modules/.pnpm/next@13.2.5-canary.28_react-dom@18.2.0_react@18.2.0/node_modules/next/dist/server/base-server.js:494:29)
at async DevServer.run (/Users/test/projects/blog/node_modules/.pnpm/next@13.2.5-canary.28_react-dom@18.2.0_react@18.2.0/node_modules/next/dist/server/dev/next-dev-server.js:860:20)
at async DevServer.handleRequestImpl (/Users/test/projects/blog/node_modules/.pnpm/next@13.2.5-canary.28_react-dom@18.2.0_react@18.2.0/node_modules/next/dist/server/base-server.js:437:20) {
cause: Error: connect ECONNREFUSED ::1:49507
at TCPConnectWrap.afterConnect [as oncomplete] (node:net:1300:16) {
errno: -61,
code: 'ECONNREFUSED',
syscall: 'connect',
address: '::1',
port: 49507
}
}
```
</details>
